Phone Sex Operators Have Favorite Clients.
Did you know this? There are some benefits to being THAT guy. It doesn’t mean her time for you is “free” or that you can expect special favors. But it is likely that if you are a favorite client you will always catch her in a good mood. She’s happy to hear from you. A good mood makes for a better call. She may also be likely to take your call at times other than her normal work hours. While it’s not possible for every operator’s lifestyle – being well-liked is going to benefit you.
Now I am going to give you some pointers on how to become a favorite phone sex client. Pay attention to this list because it’s here to help callers!
Treat her with respect! This sounds so simple, and honestly, it IS. But you would be shocked at the number of assholes we talk to. It’s sad to say that but it is true. Some callers are literally out to upset or piss off a phone sex operator intentionally. A good operator can spot that, but it’s still not fun to deal with. If you think about any job – there are always assholes. Don’t be THAT guy.
Share a fantasy with them! A completely one-sided call is boring whether it’s you or her that does all of the talking. Communication takes work and it is mutual interaction so please be engaged.
Get creative together! Add your input and ideas. Allow the operator to as well. Create an erotic/nasty adventure together. A phone sex operator wants to be a team player with you, like, literally. There is nothing more boring than a 2 person conversation where one party is completely silent.
Don’t think of her as a servant to your desires. Some callers think the phone sex operator (and webcam ladies too) are like “dancing monkeys” and are supposed to “perform” for them exactly as they want. Good phone sex operators try to fulfill ALL requests on the caller’s desires. But you also have to understand that the operator has a personality of her own as she is not a robot. She is going to interject some of that personality into her performance. If you want a robot to just recite your fantasy verbatim then there are internet readers online for free that can do that.
Always be polite and thankful when it’s needed. Simply saying thank you for a great call is a wonderful and generous kindness that phone sex operators rarely get to hear.
Get to know her a little. I don’t mean that you have to spend hours of time for her to talk about her life while you pay for it. A minute or two is often enough to show you see her as a human being.
Communicate well. If the operator is not going in the direction you wanted, it’s just possible she misunderstood your fantasy. Stop her. Correct her politely. You should get your money’s worth out of a phone sex call. At the same time, you cannot blame everything on an operator if something is misunderstood. So if you just communicate clearly she’ll get it. If she doesn’t then you should use your voice to explain it again quickly.
Don’t expect more than what she is offering. Many times per day we are asked for a free call and to meet a client. These are two things a good operator never does. We hear it so much per day that it can make us defensive after awhile. A favorite client understands that phone sex is a service. But it DOES involve real people… you and the lady you are speaking to. She has a life outside of phone sex with family, friends, dates, and so forth. A favorite understands that you and the operator won’t become a part of each other’s “real life”.
It’s that simple my friends. You know the secret touch now!