A Beginner’s Guide to Phone Sex

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You’re new to phone sex, right? Maybe you even think it’s lame or out of date and not cool anymore? You’d be wrong of course because there is more phone sex happening right now than you can imagine. I don’t just mean with the phone sex service, long-distance relationships have phone sex, covid lockdowns created a ton of new people interested in phone sex because it was all they had available. And yes phone sex services like this one still exist and thrive.

What’s the point of phone sex you ask? Well, first of all, you have to get rid of those stereotypes you’ve heard. Phone sex operators are real women, with their own personal tastes, and their own lives, sometimes they have partners too that do not share their sexual tastes. Phone Sex services are not just moaning and groaning calls. An operator has a personality, talents, sexual knowledge, and they do not judge callers! Imagine sharing your deepest desires with NO JUDGEMENT!

Phone Sex is about open communication with another person who wants to engage in a perverse conversation with you. It can be steamy HOT and result in some serious masturbation. You also get to use your imagination which is often much better than porn.

And why should you pay for it? Let me give you some very valid and good reasons to do so.

It’s extremely difficult to find a good phone sex partner without paying for it. Of course, it can happen but it is more difficult. Sometimes it comes with its own set of problems. Maybe the chick is not into getting really nasty because she is shy. Or worse, the chick you meet online for some fun gets attached to you.

When you pay for phone sex you are paying for a lovely lady who isn’t shy, probably has no limits on the topics she’ll talk about, and is not afraid of dirty words. They are not afraid to be shocked or to shock YOU. Sex talk can turn into serious fantasy exploration.

Phone sex operators are always creative Ladies and know how to weave a story together if you only want to listen, and they have advanced communication skills.

When you pay for phone sex you are getting to talk to a lady who is experienced adventurous and eager to please you with no other strings attached. You don’t have to buy her a gift and you don’t have to make any promises, so it’s much less work than going on a date and wondering all night if you’re going to get lucky.

I’ll also add that phone sex is CHEAPER than going on a date. No dinner, no movie, no flowers, no gas money, no shaving, showering, new clothes, or any of that. You can make a call seem like a date with interaction, and small talk, and then get down to the nasty. Or you can have a quickie and hang up the phone to move forward with your day/evening.

Sex, in general, requires clear and honest communication, and with phone sex you can’t see one another so you can literally say or discuss ANYTHING! So much less embarrassment if you want to share your secret fetish!

You can experiment just as you might try to check out different porn videos to see what tickles your pickle. You can just have casual sexual discussions, mutual masturbation, complex roleplays, or simply listen to a hot chick tell you a filthy sex story. You can get to know a woman a bit without her declaring ownership over you.

There are no big commitments to using a phone sex service either. Try it once. Call 60 times. Whatever you want you can have. You can develop an ongoing sexy partnership with one operator or talk to several different ones depending on your mood.

Phone sex is safe sex. It’s not physically cheating, and it’s so much less expensive than you might think it is.

How Long Should a Phone Sex Session Be?

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Sometimes new clients ask for the phone sex operator’s suggestion on how long a phone sex session should be. There is no correct answer to this because it really depends on you.

Phone sex is a highly individualized experience but it’s also a financial one. My honest suggestion to anyone who may be new to phone sex or trying out a new operator for the very first time… is to always opt for the shortest amount of time. You want to make sure you are billed properly and correctly, and that you also connect well with the operator. But for a future call, you may want to do a more complex role-play, a fantasy, or even talk longer in general.

So, let’s go back to our question how long should a phone sex session be? I’m going to give you the guidelines I suggest to clients on the phone.

If your fantasy is short and simple and you’re watching your money then 15 minutes should be plenty enough time to talk to an operator that you like…. and to have a lot of fun.

If your fantasy is detailed, complex, or will take a bit of time to explain it to the operator you should look at 30 minutes and possibly more. But 30 minutes is a very good start.

Technically the amount of time that you purchase with a phone sex operator is really dependent upon you. It depends on how much you want to spend and how detailed your fantasy is.

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How Many Phone Sex Services Should You Use?

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You are a guy that calls phone sex lines. Most likely you have quite a few ladies or services that you use regularly. Sometimes you may lose an operator and sometimes you just want someone new for variety. I mean let’s be honest – there are THOUSANDS of places you can call and sometimes all of those choices can seem exciting. Sure, they can be overwhelming as well… but let’s talk about why you should only use about 3 different companies and stick with that.

Using any phone sex service requires a caller to have “trust”. We advise that if you try somewhere new to check your credit card account after the call online. Then check it 3 days later again. Then check it again in a week. Make sure you were billed honestly. Let’s face the truth, shall we? Billing you discreetly is the number 1 thing. A caller who bops around from service to service and to multiple different independent operators is going to find himself in trouble pretty quickly. And then you will not know if a billing error was intentional or a mistake. And if it was a mistake will you remember all of the different sites and billing names? Will you know who to go to in order to have it corrected?

Ladies in the phone sex industry disappear on a frequent basis. In truth, many women leap into the phone sex world only to discover they are not good at or do not enjoy it. It truly takes a special skill set to be a good phone sex operator. You will see many operators, even ones you have liked a lot who were fun… just vanish. All quality companies do try to find reliable ladies to work for them. But that is not as easy as a caller might think.

Finding 3 solid honest companies to do business with when the phone sex urge strikes you is absolutely the best thing for a caller. You want 3 companies with several different ladies to call. And then you want to test out a few of the ladies and see who you “click” with best. But doing this you will have 3 safe places you can trust for billing, and probably multiple ladies to talk to at each company. If one disappears you have back up. when new ladies are hired you can give them a quick test drive too.

Having 3 services as a safety net means your credit card info is safe and a steady supply of different voices are available to you. Not to mention the fact that every phone sex operator approaches fetishes and fantasies differently. Within every operator’s skill set are certain things she will excel at. You can use this to your advantage if you have a very specific fetish.

Let’s use a foot fetish as an example. It’s a common fetish and it’s fairly safe to say that almost all men like to see women with pretty feet. Perhaps there is one operator you speak to who is very dominant and likes to order you around to pamper her feet. And yet another operator will talk to you for 30 minutes with a very detailed foot fetish story so you can just lay back and listen. A third operator might be the most fun at roleplaying your fetish. Since each approach and style is unique to each operator it gives you choices depending on the mood you are in at that moment.

Remember those websites and billing names etc. Make sure each company has contact info available if you have a billing problem. Allow them a chance to respond and fix it for you. Once you have 3 companies you trust you won’t ever run out of options or be disappointed.

 

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